Being Bound to a Spirit (dantalion edition)
I want to start off by saying thereās more than one but due to the nature of other (cough Furcalor cough) binding agreements I have, I only feel comfortable sharing on this one at present. Maybe Iāll get to others later on.
So Iām not talking about gentle bindings here, Iām talking about specifically things that have come as a result of being pacted (or other similar arangements), firm and secure, and mildly unbreakable bonds. Itās been a few months now since we entered into the pact, so I think itās been long enough now that I feel okay sharing some things about my pact that Iāve been really hesitant to disclose for a while. (Dantalion has also lifted a couple of his ārequestsā on not sharing certain things.)
Just to note: Iām not giving descriptions of Dantalion (appearance) here for a reason. I donāt feel like it, it would take so many words, and Iām not sure I can use the right words.
Pacting
The night I handled pact details and pacted with with Dantalion, we were really vague. The type of vague I would not recommend others to be, but love myself. I was told to expect to be taught, to be consistent in my practice, to keep certain things secret, and that I would be taken care of with regard to protection and requests (that did/would not bring me harm). Dantalion used a request of mine as leverage to get into this pact and then denied me that same requestā¦probably Iāve realized because it would have somehow hurt me. There was more, but these are really the main points. And when I asked what if Dantalion failed to comply, I was met with a terrifying sight indeed. It was like the gates of hell opening up and a vortex calling everything in sight deep into it; flames, a red swirly glitter tornado, black cracked rock around the edges, this immense feeling of fear and suffering that overwhelmed me. I wanted to know that we both had something at stake if things didnāt pan out. Knowing that both of us could be pulled into something unwantedāto that extreme at thatāwas reassuring to me. I always wondered why we trust that theyāll uphold their end without threat of āpunishment,ā but the reality is I suppose they are bound to our agreements in their own way.
It was later that ritual that I understood the real meaning of exchanging energy, exchanging āsoulā or self or whatever the fuck else itās called with a demon, spirit, djinn, āentityā. I didnāt know then what I was getting into. I was told to sit with my back against a wall, breathe, and be still by a spirit I trustedāstill trust. I was told to close my eyes and not put up resistance. I was told to trust.
He walked me into that so fucking well. The calmness, the authority, the ease, and the comfort he had was incredible. And there I was, no fucking idea what I was in for. I canāt really explain all of what happened. But I do know at some point I couldnāt breathe, at another point I was falling over onto my face, and at another point I was trying to figure out what the fuck had just happened.
He wove our energy together so seamlessly, so effortlessly from my viewpoint. It was exchanged, traded, made a binding. I was pulled into him and he was pulled into me. And thatās what (gently) knocked me out (I donāt know how long I was laying there for lights out). I didnāt know they did things like that? I mean, I knew there were claims about energy entanglement with spirits, but I hadnāt known what that meant until I sat back up and understood.
Flames Shared & Shown
It was over a month later that he suggested something different for our āpact ritualā (I call rituals that pertain to pact things āpact ritualsā). He told me to sit upright and to let him take me somewhere. I grabbed my phone to record because I wasnāt going to be able to take notes. Talking should come easily enough I figured. (Oh my fucking god, that recording is otherworldly, especially considering there are things/sounds that are not human made in there, fucking creepy).
I āopened my eyesā (not physically) into a long hallway. It was dark and there were so many doors lining the walls. I looked around and walked a few steps forward, then tried to walk back. I was told to only move forward, everything would come around but back tracking was a sure way to get lost (near indefinitely for some Iād guess). He told me to find his door, or a door that he wanted me to open Iām not sure on the phrasing. It was a strange walk, I asked what was at the end of the hall and he said we could look. Iām not here to talk about what was behind Door Number 1 though, just bindings so weāll skip that for this post.
Eventually, I ended up in the room he wanted me at. It was cozy with some glowing purple accents and lots of darkness. Dark walls, seating, etc. He told me to have a seat on a ācouchā so I did right across from this freaky giant black mirror and this big, human-head size claw machine claw hand that was perched in a wall indent/cubby facing outward. Out of a horror movie, guys. It was bordering terrifying. If it wasnāt for his energy rippling as loudly as it was throughout the space and his constant reassurances that I was with him and safe, and to be calm, that nothing bad would happen, I would have been inconsolable.
A spirit takes you to their āhome,ā which is affectionately dubbed āmazeā and into a torture chamber with comfy chairsā¦ it was a bit intense, and not what I was expecting. Iād never been in any similar type of situation.
So Iām sitting on his comfy chair and he comes to sit down too. Iām expecting a chat, not for the wall claw to start moving. Weāre going to skip over my fear and jump too the energy splicing part. It didnāt āhurt,ā but I get the feeling he did some weird magick trick because it definitely felt like it was supposed to. It felt like I was being wrenched apart, my energy, my body, my sense of being forcibly made to separate and stop being a coherent single piece. Dantalion was very nice throughout this particular experience, I think anyone who knows him knows heās pretty calm energywise and Iāve never been so thankful than in these situations. Astral breathing tightness and hyperventilating aside, my physical body was nearly unable to breathe through that whole experience, I could feel what was happening in his ālairā and knew it was tracking physically to my body. That was a bit unnerving, but again I felt safe so that was helpful and reassuring.
The audio on that is really something.
When Iād finally calmed down enough, there was a fire floating in front of me. It felt really familiar, felt mine, felt like him, felt like so much else. He explained it was the flame heād given to me when we pacted. It was his energy, within me. The flame of a djinn, his flame, his fire, his energy, what makes him. It was beautiful, I got to touch it and see it and it was breathtaking. It was the part of him āgivenā to me with our pact and bond/binding. (I got it back later in this experience, not nearly so traumaticāwhich I say lightly and with thanks for the experience.)
For weeks he had been making references to me being able to use his energy and I had been entirely missing the literal meaning behind his words. When I looked over past notes from our meeting, I found them littered with him talking about the energy trade. I hadnāt understood initially what took me out like that, but after this ritual, I knew it was the energy merge/trade that had just overwhelmed me.
Glossy Black Blood
Another evening/night I was shown glossy black blood. I was concerned someone had been watching me, I felt like there was an energy pushing at me that I didnāt want around. I reached out to Dantalion and the familiar heād given me; he said: āYou are marked in my blood.ā
I was really taken aback. Like WTF? What āblood?ā What āmark?ā I waited a couple nights until there was similar event in which he reminded me what heād said and showed me. I saw this black, glistening, glossy, sparkly, red tinted in some places, thick and clearly something at least akin to blood. I caught a glimpse of this running downāor already run downāalong a net/shield/ward (intentionally vague) around myself.
I was confused and internally conflicted with this new info, and reached out to some friends to ask their opinions on the matters of spirits, blood, and whatever the fuck ābeing markedā by a spirit meant. One of these amazing seers (if you see this, feel free to name yourself, or ask and I will) reached out to my energetic sphere and was able to show me a pattern of symbols that was made of this blood and surrounded me.
That was one of the first glimpses I caught of Dantalionās true possessiveness, of his seeing me as a sentient possession of sorts. Itās a mark that others, spirits, people on the astral, and what have you might encounter. Itās a mark that shows some gentle (or not lol) type of ownership and binds us further. Itās something that I know is a claim to me, whether in part or whole Iām not quite sure.
It felt natural and then suddenly like being hit by a train when he said āmarked in my bloodā to me. Like it was something reasonable, something I should have just known; and then all of the sudden I was confused, shocked, felt like I was inventing shit, like I needed a nap, second guessing my ability to hear and interpret spirits. Online searches were useless. And I felt like I was pretending to be superior because wtf kind of magician is actually āmarkedā by a spiritā¦how is that not the same as these pseudo-marriages and all that stuff. But Iāve come to the conclusion that at least 2 others have seen what Iām talking about on me and that idgaf, I need to trust me and the spirits Iām close with above my worries of being judged.
Exchanging Blood
This is the most recent of what Iām posting about. Itās also something I still feel a little unsure about so please forgive any issues with my wording, etc. as I havenāt had as long to consider these themes as the others.
Iāve been giving Dantalion blood for a while, but itās not very common between us. Itās not something weāve made regular at all although his metal necklace/pendant sigil is blooded, his big giant candle is blooded, and sometimes (rarely) I blood a paper sigil or incense. The other night I raised a question of blood, super casually thinking heād give a response and we might move on. That is not what happened.
I asked about his blood. I said I was curious and he answered super casually, as if heād been waiting for this happen. He said blood my sigil and then Iāll take you there (the maze). I made a new sigil to blood for him and blooded it.
He said, āCome with me,ā and so I grabbed my phone to record and we went to that same maze place. A different room than I wrote about higher up. He said ālay down,ā and I didnāt understand why, didnāt want to because Iām always scared of falling asleep after that time with the candles burningā¦ and it makes things feels more casual than I like in ritual. He repeated himself enough times that I laid down face down (as per his request) on my bed (his altar is at the foot of my bed and as per his specific request our pact rituals are held there).
In the maze room, he led me over to another long couch/seat/bed thing. He laid down on it and pulled me down. So Iām laying on top of him and he says, āokayā. I was not expecting what happened next. He put a āhandā up and raked his nails (such a pretty dark color) down his throat. Iām not relaying his words, but I think the implications are clear. I was beside myself. It looked like it had in my other visions of it, but pouring out of him (instead of driving from a clutched hand or already out of him). I did as he said. My (public, at this time) descriptions of that end here.
When that was ending/over, he said stay still. Iām not sure exactly what happened but his left arm ended up opened and gushing blood. It was a very long tear. He dragged it upward against my back. I felt it. Another mark of possession, of claim, of ownership. Another mark of protection, binding, and kinship.
After that event I felt overwhelmed and insane and like I needed to crawl out from within my body. Like there was too much something inside me and it wanted out. He said I should release blood and that would help, but Iām not about to slice into myself to handle that issue. It was so fucking intense. It took hours to wear off. The next day I felt weird. The next, next day I still felt kinda strange. I felt it in my body, in my blood, in my stomach, in my energy.
Making Sense of Meanings
Iāve been made aware (thanks for the fucked up astral ānightmaresā Dantalion, which I mean lovingly) that I have access to the fire within me as a spiritual āweapon.ā But I was also told following this last night I referenced that anything that (actually) touches me will just burn. So even with my cushy warding system which Iāve gotten some cool reviews on over the last couple months itās been up, I have reassurances if anything gets too close. Iām sure that blood mark is good for other things too and has other implications.
Bindings are two way streets. As I am bound, so is he. As he binds himself to me, so I am bound to him.
An exchange of energy, of being, of blood, of whatever may follow. Each is marked by a trade. While he might not wear my blood around, or hold a sigil for me, both energy and blood are necessary parts of what make a human human and make a human alive. What Iād not realized before this pact is that ādemonsā might operate by similar principals. What is given is received, and is given in return.
Anyways, I just thought it was about time I write something (other than half illegible texts) about being bound this way with a spirit, a demon, a djinn, a manipulative creature who is so fucking dear to me and such an amazing friend, protector, and much more. (Iāll remind everyone that this relationship is 10000000% platonic real quick.)
Some of these ideas arenāt fully formed, but I wanted to post. Come add your thoughts if you want and have similar experience.