Ok I’m reading this and I’m agreeing with everything you’re saying so far. There’s plenty of newcomers reading this and nodding along with you while they secretly fantasize about pacting Valac ( or whoever) after 3 meditations listening to their enns.
Heres the problem @Arianna the idea of working repeatedly to establish or rule out rapport and chemistry sounds too much like building a real relationship in real life, also sounds alot like work which a good 50 percent of newcomers cannot be bothered with.