One thing ive learned is that things thrive on attention. Stop the attention and the “thing” whatever it may be will usually go away or it will no longer effect you.
Its your world dont let other things dictate whats in it.
Hahaha my boyfriend’s friends used to show up unannounced with a bottle of whiskey and force him to party with them, which they called an “ambush” (before they had kids and stuff). I never had friends like that though
Maybe we/others here can do like an astral ambush to each other??
Im such an introvert that I dont ever just go out.
My oldest daughter was an extrovert, and would never leave me alone until I left my room and we did whatever she was insisting we go do. But now shes busy with a job and family.
My middle child and son had a very strict dad so they never get pushy about me doing stuff , like my oldest one did. But sometimes introverts have to be ambushed out of the house. Or aggravated until they give
I definitely relate to this- back when I was in college and had party friends they would show up with a blunt and blast music until I emerged from my cave/dorm.
When I get a handle on astral projection, I’m going to show up unannounced twerking in the corner (warning )